Great husbands are few and far between. Most husbands fall into the category of good or OK. However, great husbands are much happier and enjoy a richer degree of life. So, what is the difference? Here are some of the essential principles to becoming a great husband

1. Listen To Her Feelings. You might not understand, or agree, but listen. Most men argue or get frustrated. A great husband conveys unconditional support to his wife. He makes it safe for her to share all sides of herself. A wife who can freely express herself will not only feel safe but a great husband will make her feel special as well.
2. Spend Time With Her. Let your actions show your wife that she is your greatest priority. She needs to know that she is special to you. Most men choose sports, T.V. golfing or fishing. You can have these things but if your wife doesn't know she comes first in your life then she may resent your other pursuits.
3. Be Her Champion. Your wife needs to feel your strength and security. "I'm here for you" is the point you want to make. Despite other messages she may give you, women hate having to be in charge all of the time. Convey to your wife that you love her despite her moods or behaviour. Great husbands stand by their wives no matter what.
4. Let Her Know That You Are Captivated By Her Beauty. Let your wife know that you only have eyes for her. You dilute the strength of your marriage when you look at other women. How is she going to feel safe if she feels threatened by other women all the time? Don't split your energy pour it all on her.

Being a Great Husband is not hard to do. It does take more effort but the rewards are enormous. You will feel so much better about yourself and your wife will go out of her way to fulfil your needs.
In times of uncertainty or frustration, ask the question, "What would a Great Husband do?" This question will help you keep your direction and commitment. Strive to be great.

Mark Webb is the author of How To Be A Great Partner and founder of Partner Focused Relationships™. Visit his website at www.powerfulrelationshipadvice.com or www.therelationshipspecialist.com